For the Muslim youth

This requires careful consideration... Numerous possibilities spring to mind, yet I realize that had I not made those decisions in life, I wouldn't have become who I am now Alhamdulillah, nor would I possess the knowledge I've acquired as a result of some regrettable choices.

I'm not advocating for people to intentionally make mistakes; rather, I'm suggesting that those who contemplate their past errors and strive for self-improvement can learn from them. It's about extracting the positive outcomes from those experiences instead of fixating on the negative circumstances and their potential impact on one's life.

It's important to note that I was raised in a Christian family and converted 13 years ago, Alhamdulillah. My early years were not influenced by Islamic teachings, though I attended Sabbath school at church every weekend. I didn't particularly enjoy it; we sang and learned about the Bible, among other activities. My understanding of religion was limited; I simply adopted my parents' beliefs, identifying as Christian without fully grasping its essence. My belief was in God, and that was the extent of it.

Knowing what I know now, I would have cherished being a Muslim earlier in my life. However, it was destined that I discovered Islam when I did, and for that, I am profoundly grateful that Allah guided me at the time He did, Alhamdulillah.

"And He found you lost and guided [you]."

Qur'an. surah Ad-Dhuha 93, verse 7

I can relate with some young people who are raised as Muslims, adhering to their parents' teachings and beliefs. However, there is a period, particularly during the teenage years, when children may deviate as they search for their identity and the meaning of life. Of course, this does not apply to all youths.

Its important to note that during the teen years its vital that you allow them to find their own understanding of what Islam is to them. [speaking from a parents perspective] All that can be done at this point is to remind them, gentle, firm and direct reminders. 

"And remind, for indeed, the reminder benefits the believers."

Qur'an. Surah Adh-Dhariyat 51, verse 55

It's crucial to emphasize that the company you keep plays a significant role in your growth and character development, including emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual aspects. The influence of your social circle is profound on all these elements.

"O believers, be conscious of Allah and keep yourself in the company of the truthful."

[Qur'an. 9:119]

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Your company is defined by:

- The people you spend time with
- The literature you read
- The content you watch
- The music you listen to
- The thoughts you entertain

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Whatever you devote your time to essentially becomes your company. So, reflect on this: How is your company? Does it remind you of Allah, keep you accountable, and make you mindful of the Hereafter? Does it recall to you that life is a brief journey and that your return to Allah is imminent? Does it encourage you to abandon a particular sin or bad habit? Does it deter you from losing your way?

"And keep your soul content with those who call on their Lord morning and evening, seeking His face, and let not your eyes pass beyond them, seeking the pomp and glitter if this Life; nor obey any whose heart We have permitted to neglect the remembrance of Us, one who follows his own desires, whose case has gone beyond all bounds."

[Quran 18:28]

My overall advice to today's youth and adults is to be mindful of the company you keep and make necessary amendments to rectify situations as needed.

The Messenger of Allah PBUH said: 

"A man will follow the way of his close friends, so let one of you look to whom he takes as his close friends."

[Jami'at Tirmidhi No.2378]